False Hope.
In the early 1980s I was approached after church by an
elderly church member affectionately named Granny. She asked if I knew her
grand-daughter who was now overseas but had been working as a nurse in the same
hospital as me. Yes, I did know her, quite well, in fact, as we had worked
together quite a number of times over an extended period of time. Granny
explained that her grand-daughter was working overseas at a mission hospital
but had caused quite a deal of disruption by insisting that things be done her
way.
Granny knew that although I had left nursing, I was, at that
time, running a counselling practice at the same hospital. And so she
asked if I could write to her grand-daughter as a concerned friend and encourage
her to change her approach. I agreed and said that I would send an immediate
telegram with an appropriate Bible reference and follow it with a lengthy
letter of explanation.
So I duly sent the telegram which read: AMOS 3:1-3 LETTER
FOLLOWING. And I did follow it with a letter of explanation.
Amos 3:1-3 –says: Hear this word that the LORD hath spoken
against you, O children of Israel, against the whole family which I brought up
from the land of Egypt, saying, (2) You only have I known of all the families of
the earth: therefore I will punish you for all your iniquities. (3) Can two
walk together, except they be agreed?
Unfortunately the telegraph operator left off the first
three letters of the name of the Bible book Amos. So the telegram that she
received read, S 3:1-3 LETTER FOLLOWING.
Now the grand-daughter was an intelligent girl and figured
out that it was a Bible reference in the message and to expect a letter from me
in the mail. But what book of the Bible starts with S? It couldn’t be Psalms as
that starts with a letter P. It couldn’t be Samuel as that starts with a 1 or
2. It could only be the Solomon’s Song
of Songs.
Embarrassingly, Song of Songs 3:1-3 reads: By night on my
bed I sought him whom my soul loveth: I sought him, but I found him not. (2) I
will rise now, and go about the city in the streets, and in the broad ways I
will seek him whom my soul loveth: I sought him, but I found him not. (3) The
watchmen that go about the city found me: to whom I said, Saw ye him whom my
soul loveth?
And this was a message from Lionel and it said that a letter
was following.
Well, the grand-daughter was sufficiently moved by this, and
so she wrote me a very passionate love letter responding to her perception of
what I had said. Our letters crossed in the mail and it was over a week later
that I received another letter in which she profusely apologised for the
misunderstanding.
Now you want me to tell you that we got married and lived
happily ever after – well, no, we simply continued to love each other as a
sister and brother in Christ. And so apologies were accepted and to her credit
she took my counsel and ceased her inappropriate behaviour.
So there is such a thing as dashed hope.
--- Lionel Hartley